How To Find Out If I Need To Cut Down On My Alcohol Drinking
If you are drinking too much alcohol, you can improve your life and health by cutting down your alcohol consumption.
How do you know if you drink too much? Read these questions and answer “yes” or “no”:
· Do you drink alone when you feel angry or sad?
· Does your drinking ever make you late for work?
· Does your drinking worry your family?
· Do you ever drink after telling yourself you won’t?
· Do you ever forget what you did while you were drinking?
· Do you get headaches or have a hangover after you have been drinking?
If you answered “yes” to any of these questions, you may have a problem with alcohol. Call Recovery Connection for a clinical assessment to be sure. Your doctor will also be able to tell you whether you should cut down or abstain. If you have other medical problems, you should not just cut down on your drinking — you should stop drinking completely.
In addition, alcoholism tends to run in families. If there has ever been a drinking problem in your family, you are at high risk of having a regular drinking pattern turn into an uncontrollable addiction before you realize it. If you do have a family history, it’s advisable to minimize your social drinking.
If your doctor tells you to cut down on your drinking, these steps can help you:
1. Write your reasons for cutting down or stopping.
Why do you want to drink less? There are many reasons why you may want to cut down or stop drinking. You may want to improve your health, sleep better, or get along better with your family or friends. Make a list of the reasons you want to drink less.
2. Set a drinking goal.
You may choose to cut down or not to drink at all. If you are cutting down, keep below these recommended limits:
Women: No more than one drink a day
Men: No more than two drinks a day
A drink is:
§ a 12-ounce bottle of beer;
§ a 5-ounce glass of wine; or
§ a 1 1/2-ounce shot of liquor.
These limits may be too high for some people who have certain medical problems or who are older. Talk with your doctor about the limit that is right for you.
Now — write your drinking goal on a piece of paper. Put it where you can see it, such as on your refrigerator or bathroom mirror. Your paper might look like this:
| My drinking goal · I will start on this day ____________. · I will not drink more than ______ drinks in 1 day. · I will not drink more than ______ drinks in 1 week. · or · I will stop drinking alcohol. |
3. Keep a “diary” of your drinking.
To help you reach your goal, keep a “diary” of your drinking. For example, write down every time you have a drink for one week. Try to keep your diary for 3 or 4 weeks. This will show you how much you drink and when. You may be surprised. How different is your goal from the amount you drink now? Use the “drinking diary” below to write down when you drink.
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Now you know why you want to drink less and you have a goal. There are many ways you can help yourself to cut down. Try these tips:
Watch it at home.
Keep a small amount or no alcohol at home. Don’t keep temptations around.
Drink slowly.
When you drink, sip your drink slowly. Take a break of 1 hour between drinks. Drink soda, water, or juice after a drink with alcohol. Do not drink on an empty stomach! Eat food when you are drinking.
Take a break from alcohol.
Pick a day or two each week when you will not drink at all. Then, try to stop drinking for 1 week. Think about how you feel physically and emotionally on these days. When you succeed and feel better, you may find it easier to cut down for good.
Learn how to say NO.
You do not have to drink when other people drink. You do not have to take a drink that is given to you. Practice ways to say no politely. For example, you can tell people you feel better when you drink less. Stay away from people who give you a hard time about not drinking.
Stay active.
What would you like to do instead of drinking? Use the time and money spent on drinking to do something fun with your family or friends. Go out to eat, see a movie, or play sports or a game.
Get support.
Cutting down on your drinking may be difficult at times. Ask your family and friends for support to help you reach your goal. Talk to your doctor if you are having trouble cutting down. Get the help you need to reach your goal.
Watch out for temptations.
Watch out for people, places, or times that make you drink, even if you do not want to. Stay away from people who drink a lot or bars where you used to go. Plan ahead of time what you will do to avoid drinking when you are tempted.
Do not drink when you are angry or upset or have a bad day. These are habits you need to break if you want to drink less.
DO NOT GIVE UP!
Most people do not cut down or give up drinking all at once. Just like a diet, it is not easy to change. That is okay. If you do not reach your goal the first time, try again. Remember, get support from people who care about you and want to help. Do not give up!
Source: National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism – National Institute of Health.
We encourage people suffering from alcoholism or drug addiction to search for help. Remember that Recovery Connection is always here and we can answer any other questions. Call us at anytime at 1-800-993-3869, or visit our site at www.recoveryconnection.org.
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vikki said,
January 25, 2007 @ 3:19 pm
I am a 20 year old and I’m 5′6″ weigh 100lbs and I have become a bottomless pit when it comes to drinking. I made a deal with myself not to drink anymore during the weak because everytime I start drinking I drink until either the beer is gone or I just get tired and go to bed. I have literally drank 18-20 beers a night without even “feeling” intoxicated. If I run out of beer before I get tired I get furious and panic trying to find more. Sometimes I have black outs and can’t remember parts of conversations when I drink. If I feel uncomfortable in a class or social situation, alcohol is where I turn. I don’t want to quit all together but I also cant drink in moderation. I’m not even old enough to buy my own alcohol yet.. so I can imagine what next year will bring. Do you think its possible I might be or become an alcoholic or just dependent?
Elaine said,
January 25, 2007 @ 3:23 pm
Dear Vikki:
I do believe you have a problem with Alcohol. Having “Black Outs” is one of the most common problems Alcoholics have. I have been in the AA Program for over 8 and 1/2 years now. I never drank to be social. I always drank to get drunk. Has your drinking caused you problems with family, your job, or school? If so, I do hope you contact your local AA in the white pages of the telephone book. They will be able to help you and yes dependence upon Alcohol is part of the Disease. There is help if you sincerely want it. Good luck in your venture. It is never to young or to old to be Alcoholic.
Sincerely,
Elaine, a fellow Alcoholic.
Frank said,
January 25, 2007 @ 3:25 pm
In my opinion, having once been a heavy drinker myself (read: alcoholic), you are an alcoholic already by your own words because you:
Make resolutions to stop, but don’t
Panic when no alcohol is available
Have blackouts - a very dangerous phenomena
Use alcohol as a social crutch
Admit you can’t drink in moderation
Fear the future
Next year? Worse than this year. And even worse the year after that; and the one after that, and the one after that, and so on until you have lost everything, including your self-respect for the many things you will have lowered yourself to do in order to obtain alcohol.
There are more features to alcoholism than are presented in the above list. But don’t worry, you will eventually experience them all. And when you do you will be at the very bottom of a very deep, very dark pit with UP the only place to go because you will have sunk to the very bottom of human existence.
I suggest you rent the movie “The Days of Wine and Roses” and also get yourself to an AA meeting. You don’t have to say anything there, or even to admit you’re an alcoholic. Just go and listen. I believe if you do this, you will discover a place where no sane person wants to go. You have the strength inside you to emerge victorious from this confrontation with your demons. I do hope you can find it.
vikki said,
January 25, 2007 @ 3:27 pm
Well it all sounds like good ideas to me and I do want help but I don’t want to quit drinking all together and I know that is what everyone thinks I should do but its not that easy. Plus does AA cost money because my mom supports me and I can’t tell her I have a drinking problem…she doesn’t even know I drink. I know I have the stregnth to quit its just a matter of when I feel ready to make the decision. I don’t drink and drive or anything like that so the only person I’m hurting is myself.